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Benan Yuceer
Do you still believe that your past defines who you are?Â
Take a moment to reflect on it. Consider the influences of your family environment, cultural or religious background, friend cycle, schooling, and media on your life experiences. Yet, ask yourself, do these elements genuinely define who you are, or do they act as barriers preventing you from becoming the person you aspire to be?
In this article, we will delve into the concept of identity through a Jungian perspective. You will discover how our identity is intricately connected to the choices we make and the paths we choose to navigate. My intention is to challenge limiting beliefs and empower you to actively shape your narrative and identity so you can have a more fulfilling and harmonious sense of yourself.
At BeYu Wellness, we share Carl Jung’s view that our choices play a big role in shaping who we are. Like Jung, we believe in a process called “individuation,” where we become the person we’re meant to be. Jung said we all have the power to realize our true selves, and this journey involves making mindful choices.
We also think it’s crucial to bring together different parts of ourselves – the conscious and the unconscious. Exploring and embracing these unconscious parts helps us understand ourselves better. When we combine this self-awareness with making thoughtful choices, we can shape our identity in a purposeful and authentic way. It’s like putting the pieces together to see the whole picture of who we are. So, we believe that a self-discovery journey consists of integrating the conscious and unconscious and intentionally creating your identity by making mindful choices.
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Too often, we may feel like victims of our past, but it’s essential to understand that our identity is not predetermined. We hold the power to actively shape our narrative by embracing resilience and growth. Let me share a personal story that might resonate with those who feel entrapped by their past.
In 2018, my lower back pain was a constant shadow, turning even simple tasks like putting on my shoes into real challenges. I had always embraced an active lifestyle, trying everything from extreme sports to team sports as I grew up. However, facing this new problem felt like a demanding journey. The pain took a toll on me, leading to a withdrawal from social activities.
With physical restrictions, my mindset gradually settled for less, and my behavior underwent a noticeable shift. I watched my athletic identity slowly fade before my eyes. Then, when my doctor recommended quitting all sports that brought me joy and undergoing spinal surgery, I felt trapped. Accepting the situation as a victim seemed like the only option, with quitting sports and relying on strong medicine as the prescribed path.
But one day, I had enough of this painful life – physically, mentally, and emotionally. I decided to explore natural ways to heal, determined to reclaim my ability to play sports. This choice marked a significant turning point for me. Following a simple morning routine I crafted, I not only alleviated the pain but also rediscovered the joy of playing sports. Choosing this path allowed me to preserve my identity and overcome the challenges posed by my back pain.
Changing who we are is a process that unfolds in stages, marked by intentional choices and mindful actions. It begins with a simple intention, which, when consistently pursued, evolves into a behavior. This behavior, when practiced regularly, transforms into a habit. Over time, this habit becomes a deeply ingrained practice, eventually shaping our second nature. Ultimately, it defines who we are, becoming an integral part of our identity.
Start by acknowledging and exploring both your conscious and unconscious thoughts, feelings, and desires. Self-awareness is the key to understanding the different aspects of yourself. Embrace and integrate these elements to form a more comprehensive understanding of who you are. This integration is vital for a harmonious and authentic self-discovery journey.
Recognize that your past does not have to dictate your future. Embrace the power of choice and understand that every decision you make shapes your identity. Break free from the notion of being a victim of your past, and instead, actively choose the narrative you want to live. Your choices are powerful tools for transformation and self-realization.
Define clear intentions for the person you aspire to become. Break down these intentions into small, manageable action steps. Consistently practice these steps to turn them into habits. Over time, these habits will become ingrained practices that define your second nature. Setting and pursuing clear intentions with small, consistent actions is a practical approach to actively shaping your identity.
Remember, by understanding the transformative power of personal agency, you can break free from the limitations of your past and actively shape your identity and future. The journey toward empowerment starts with a simple intention, evolves into intentional behaviors, and ultimately becomes an integral part of who you are.
At BeYu Wellness, we are here to support you on this transformative path. If you find yourself in need of guidance or support in this process, consider booking a sample coaching session with me. Let’s team up to break free from limiting beliefs, empowering you to take charge of your narrative and identity. I’m here to guide you toward a more fulfilling and balanced life, where you can authentically BE YOUrself!
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"I am not what happened to me;
I am what I choose to become."